About SIM & TAST Consulting | Nigeria's Leading Sex Therapy Practice
SIM
Sexuality & Intimacy
In Marriages
SIM & TAST Consulting

About Our Practice
Sexuality & Intimacy In Marriages

We are passionate about marriages. We talk about sex & everything else that makes marriage the fulfilling, joyful partnership it was always meant to be.

1,000+
Marriages Helped Yearly
400+
Community Members
5+
Years of Practice
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Worldwide Access
Our Story

Why We Started Talking About Sex

Hot. Spontaneous. Passionate. Gentle. Loving. Does any of these describe your sex life right now? Every marriage is meant to be happily fulfilled at every point in time — regardless of the challenges that come with it.

The word 'fulfilment' has lost its meaning because of the sentiments we've attached to what happens within marriage. Marriage was meant to be a blessing, deeply enjoyable — and not solely for procreation. Yet so many marriages have been tied only to bearing children, ignoring the richness of intimacy that was always part of the design.

"SEX is spiritually physical in marriage. It was created by God to serve life-changing purposes — and we help couples rediscover exactly that."

Research has shown that the majority of married couples can go months without sex, yet secretly crave it. Many reasons have been attached to why sex has become a big issue in the home. We decided to stop whispering and start talking about it honestly, clinically, and compassionately.

Sex is Sacred.
Talk About It.

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A lot of marriages can no longer be proud of their sex life. We're changing that — one honest, shame-free conversation at a time.

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Did You Know?
The majority of married couples admit to going months without sex — yet most desire a richer intimate life. Knowledge, conversation and expert guidance can change everything.
What Drives Us

Our Vision & Mission

Everything we do — every session, every class, every book — is rooted in one unwavering belief: that strong sexual intimacy builds stronger marriages, stronger families, and a stronger society.

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Our Vision
Saving 1,000 Marriages
Every Single Year

We aim to reduce the incidences of broken marriages caused by sexual misunderstandings or dissatisfaction — working towards saving at least 1,000 marriages every year through education, therapy, and open conversation.

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Our Mission
Empowering Couples.
Providing Real Solutions.
  • Empowering Couples: We provide a platform where couples can be educated and empowered with accurate, shame-free information about sex and related matters.
  • Providing Solutions: Through our practice, we offer learning, counseling, and advisory services to address sex-related issues in marriage with clinical precision and deep compassion.
How We Work

Our Core Values

The SIM approach is driven by five core principles that shape every session, every conversation, and every interaction with our clients.

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Confidentiality
The private lives of our clients remain private. Always. Full discretion in every engagement.
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Professionalism
We maintain the highest standards in therapy and counseling — certified, trained, and continuously learning.
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Empathy
A compassionate, understanding ear for every couple in distress. No judgment. Only genuine care.
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Strategy
Well-thought-out, tailored plans to help couples resolve their issues — not generic advice.
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Result-Oriented
We are focused on achieving real, measurable, lasting outcomes — not just feel-good conversations.
Our Approach

What We Do & Who We Help

From one-on-one therapy to group sessions, books to online communities — we meet couples and individuals wherever they are in their intimacy journey.

We Do This Through
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Professional, Solution-Based TherapyClinical expertise applied with warmth — focused on real outcomes, not just conversation.
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Honest ConversationsAround sex, emotions, needs, and identity — the topics most people avoid, we tackle head-on.
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Tools & TechniquesPractical strategies and exercises that create lasting change, not just temporary relief.
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Confidential, Judgment-Free CareA safe space where nothing is too sensitive, too embarrassing, or too complicated to address.
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Expert TrainingDeveloping the next generation of African therapists equipped to serve the continent's marriages.
We Help Clients
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Heal Emotional Wounds
Address trauma, shame, and past hurt that shows up in the bedroom and beyond.
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Improve Intimacy & Communication
Bridge the gap between what couples need and what they actually express to each other.
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Navigate Life Transitions
Premarital prep, post-baby intimacy, midlife changes — we help couples stay connected through it all.
Reclaim Joy & Desire
Rediscover a healthy sense of self and reignite the passion that life and routine quietly buried.
Meet the Founder

The Heart Behind SIM

Lead Sex Therapist & Founder
Omolola Natural AdefuyeFondly called "Natural"
Certified Marriage & Relationship Counselor | Sexology Specialist
Certified Sexologist Marriage Counselor Conference Convener Published Author Media Personality

Omolola Adefuye is passionate about helping families get it right in the place of sex. As a trained and certified marriage and relationship counselor with specialty in sexology, she has over the years featured in Punch Newspaper, New Telegraph Newspaper, iBrand TV, and various magazines and online interviews.

She is the convener of the Annual SIM Couples Conference and the founder of the Sex In Marriages WhatsApp Class — a platform created to help couples constantly stay sexually active with each other. She helps couples learn, understand and do sex better and satisfactorily, having helped thousands in her Friday sex classes, one-on-one therapy and through her teachings on talk shows and social media platforms.

"When the sex is done right, a lot of marital problems find easy solution. Divorces become lesser. Children have a safe haven to grow up in."
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The Night Before Val Sexually Charged in 5 Mins
The Team

The People Behind SIM

A small but deeply committed team, each member bringing a unique dimension to SIM's mission of strengthening marriages and families across Nigeria and beyond.

Prayer & Spiritual Coordination
Olugbemiga Ogunlela
Prayer Coordinator — SIM War Room
A Christian leader with a strong interest in spiritual formation, emotional discipline, and the role of intentional spirituality in healthy marriages. He designs and coordinates focused prayer sessions that provide spiritual coverage for SIM's programs, facilitators, and participants — ensuring balance and emotional grounding for every couple engaging the platform.
Finance & Operations
Adeola Akintunde
Accountant, SIM & TAST
Responsible for financial record-keeping, accountability, and stewardship of resources across SIM's programs and initiatives. Beyond her professional role, Adeola is deeply passionate about marriage, intimacy, and family systems — believing that healthy marriages form the foundation for stable families and thriving communities.
Conference & Programs
Grace Ademola-Oke
Conference Planning Team & Family Counselor
A transformational leader, minister of the Gospel, and certified family and marriage counselor with TIMFA. Grace is an integral part of the Annual Conference Planning Team, contributing to program structure, content direction, and participant experience. She is also the founder of the Beauty for Ashes Community, supporting single parents, widows, and families with tools for restoration and resilience.
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